I got a letter in the mail today--STBExH will have a pretrial hearing March 15 and I can choose to be there or not.
I prefer not. Any compelling reason I should go? I don't want to look like an "out-for-blood" exW. I know, this being his first offense, they won't do all that much to him. He made a mistake in hitting me--yeah--huge mistake. But I choose to think he's learned from it and don't want to give him more grief about it than he will already be experiencing. I know him--this isn't going to be on his list of top ten experiences.lol.
Opinions?
So life has been interesting. My H is paying the mortgage, and some of the bills. The ones he isn't paying it's probably because they are in my name. So I'm thankful for that!
We still have no contact. Sooo weird but has certainly helped me to detach--so much so that I am feeling thankful that he is no longer in my life. He causes SOOO much drama. And is sooo needy and never, ever EVER satisfied.
I have been trying to do a lot of work on myself to figure out why I wanted someone like this. I have been taking a Boundaries class at church which has been really helpful.
I also did a 2 day Hospice class to volunteer with the local Hospice. I am really excited about doing this. I have several friends that are/have been involved with the organization and really get a lot of satisfaction from it.
Next step is to sign up for the 8 week CNA class. I am starting to get really excited about it. I don't know if I can get a very good job with just a CNA, but I think it will look good on my resume and will give me something to do for the next 8 weeks. It's an evening class and for a thousand bucks, I think it's well worth it.
Don't know when I'll be divorced. Or where I'll live. Or much of anything at this point. Limboland is not my favorite, but I'm keeping busy at least!
