I thought you said earlier you don't believe there's an OM this time but it was her apathy and unresponsive behavior? I must have missed a post if you said there is an OM.
What do you think contributed most to busting it last time? Did she talk about this at all?
Do you still have the legal papers? Perhas just change the dates and numbers and prepare them for signature? (PS: my phone often messes up what I type)