Wow it's been quite some time since I was here. W and I have been getting along well as friends or roomates. My attempts at buying a house didn't work out. About two weeks ago W said lets go to the beach for the weekend, it will give us a chance to talk. There is good and bad. The good, she wants to try to work on our marriage. The bad, her talks were all negative things from the past, nothing positive about how she wants it to work because of the good in me. I see alot of negative attitude in her about alot of things in life. Depression runs in her family. I know she sees it in her mother and sister. I did tell her that we will have to take steps to get past our problems and suggested MC. She didn't want to sit in front of a stranger and tell them personel problems and cry her eyes out in front of them. But I said we have to take action some how because I wasn't going to live like this anymore. So now what? The trip was just this weekend, but I don't want time to just drag out without trying to work out a solution.
I could use some help, my foot is in the door but I don't know how to open it further without her help.
