I think it was positive time, but not sure. I want to make sure that I am actually DBing, and not just there being her "buddy" or doormat??? Spending a lot of time together lately, watched another movie together last night after dinner as a family.. So the question of the day ... Is how do I know if I am "enabling" her to just be friends or if this is truly progress ?? Anyone?


Me-43,W-41
Married 18 years
Together 20 years
S12, S13
Wife EA - 3-2009
Reconciled
WAW-9-2009
Reconciled again 2-2010
Bomb- 12/30/2010
Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011
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