Sparks, right now your S story sounds almost exactly like mine, except I'm the one moving out (W had the house before she met me). W and I have been getting along and have been deciding which items to split. We also have two of most things.

I've also been stoic through this process, but last night after I picked up my keys it really hit me. I started the day on a high note (W and I snuggled for a while in the morning) and by the evening I was trying my best to hold back tears.

My W also plans on using this time to figure herself out. I truly hope both of our W's do.

You seem to be handling this as well as expected. Hang in there!


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011