Well what a half term week, as i said my wife was going to stay at my daughters, i had a call on Tuesday asking to run my daughter to the bank so i went over and did that, then my wife asked me to stay and she would cook dinner, which she did, had a nice evening, my wife gave me a hug and i left. Wednesday night i get a call from my wife asking if she could stay with me rest of week, i said yes we can take kids to cinema. She came over and said she wanted me to go to my daughters that day so she could just see me. Thursday she said she felt like getting her belongings from hostel and coming home, it was said in an unsure way, i just smiled. We ML rest of week and it was beautiful, then came Saturday, she was quiet, then bomb shell, my 9 year old who is staying with her had told my 16 year old who is with me that my wife had met a man for coffee, me 9 year old then told my wife she had told her, my wife then decided to tell me rather than my daughter telling me, i was calm and brushed it off, rest of day was back to being loving. Sunday i took her back to hostel, she was quiet said she now loved me alot, we said our goodbyes and i came home. My daughter told me when i came in that my wife had invited this man to my daughters who she stayed with to introduce them, and that why wife spoke to him on the internet every night, i was so hurt, i text my wife told her to forget wanting to be here with me, she was out of order inviting him to my daughters, and she is messing my younger daughters head about, as she saw us kissing and cuddling and she sees her with her new man, she must wonder what the hell is going on. In other words i blew it big time. Next day we text and spoke but was general stuff that was in the morning, she said she would talk that night on facebook, i apologised for my reaction, she was cold said she was upset. I went on facebook, she didnt come on, my mind was telling me she was on the dating site talking to this guy, today is my birthday, i had a text wishing me happy birthday, i repied thankyou. I feel i was so close to getting her thinking about a return and blew it, she as wanting to come this weekend, but reading between the lines she wont, last weekend she said she could have spent it with this guy but wanted to be with me, true i guess, how do i get back to where we was, or wont that happen, help please, im gutted....kevc.
