You are right, we have no way of knowing how they behave with others...so what SIL said is helpful...helps you not to take it too personally when XH is not all smiles when you are together...you know that it's not you it's him.

Can't wait to read about your next evening with Mr. GAG...

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO