Hi Grr,
Hang in there. This is exactly the roller coaster you speak of .. the one we're all on. As somebody else said "I'll hold your hand and we can scream together".

I have done an OK job of detaching, but events like you describe still get me every time. But, I think this is the ride to expect for now. I wouldn't hope for a quick resolution to things like this .... just keep taking care of you!!

B.I.T.S

Formerly known as onStepAtATime
Me:31 W:31
T:13 yrs M:8 yrs
D: 20 months
ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10
"I want a separation" 1/05/11