Easy, Iron. Don't be the one rushing the two of you to the attorney, OK? Remember, try something new with her, observe, report and adjust. When you see something positive, make a note of it. Try to do more of it.

I do believe that my WAS was also dealing with some undiagnosed depression and she did not want to deal with it. It made our R very tough. Have you suggested her seeing a C? Just wondering?

BITS never walk alone!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...