If I had the answer...I think I could make money on it.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
What, it is probably way to soon to think about that right now. Don't put the cart before the horse, OK. Just continue on what you need to do to get your life in order and what you need to do to continue to paint yourself in a positive light. It may take some serious time before she begins to reconsider, if she does at all. Please keep in mind, DR and DB are not the only books I have read on this subject. And all of them push one very important point. The WAS will NEVER, NEVER apologize or regret leaving. They may reconsider and come home, but they will never regret it as they think they are justified. Keep that in mind as you work toward your goal!
Keep your head up!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
so when does it start to sink in for them that they have made a mistake? lol
For every person it is different. The more pressure you apply the longer it takes. The more you seem depressed when you have interactions with her the longer it takes.
here is my tentative reply... feel free to fix it lol
Are you going to send the accountant my W-2 as well? I'm assuming that anything else he would need from me is with you at this point. Just let me know when you want to meet up at the tag agency.
The interview went really well I think. It was at Hilcorp Energy which looks like an awesome company to work for. The interview lasted 3.5 hours and I met with 5 different people. Pretty intense lol. I don't want to get my expectations too high because it is my first interview in quite a while but it would be a great opportunity.
Slayde has to be the happiest baby I've ever been around. He smiles about everything and talks all the time but you can't understand hardly anything he says.
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M 11/11/00 Bomb end of September 2010 Filed 11/9/10
I agree with 2step. TMI!!! Bring it back a little. W does not need to know how the interview went or how long it took. Keep things to yourself right now.
That of course is just IMHO..
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007
Imagine this scenario: You meet up with her . You are happy to see her and you act as if. After business has been taken care off you say-W do you have a few minutes? She says "yeah was up" and you say "I just wanted to say thank you for being so pleasant throughout this whole scenario. I think we are luckier than most that we can keep things so positively while all this has been going on. I would like to tell you that I am so sorry for all the things I put you through and I hate the fact that I put you in this position. I would like for you to know that. I hope that we can at least remain friends, if that is ok with you. Truth is you are a great woman and I would hate to lose your friendship. I am not asking for you to be my BF right now, I know that is unrealistic but I wanted to let you know that I am here if you just need someon to talk to. That is all I wanted to say. I hope you have a good day and I hope to talk to you again sometime." That is it walk away and be happy because that is planting a seed. That is prob the scariest thing you will do but I think it is necessary.
