Sorry to here things are so rough right now. As a W I know I have an uncontrollable urge to protect my kids. You may know your intentions with your son are only because you love him...but if you have in any way made W doubt that, she may not worry about your feelings at all. I definately have an issue with being over protective of my kids. Not making excuses for her, but it is only been a few days.
Relax, take a really deep breath and go do something for yourself. It will work out. Be the best dad you can! Sending you a great big hug!!!!
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007