Just out of curiosity, did your wife file for divorce or did you? How are you handling it, emotionally and stuff, I mean?
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My wife filed. She filed after a little bit of a blow out. I attempted to take control of the sitch back in the december and she filed a week later. About a week or two after that I found this website and as I found my way out of the darkness I began to change how I approached things.
How am I handling it? I guess it would depend on when you ask me. Most days I don't even think about it. I am focused on the big picture and I see the D as a small piece of the large puzzle. I would be lying if I said it does not bother me but honestly I think if it goes through I will be in a much better place than she will. You know why? Because I have you guys and I don't say that lightly
