What, it is probably way to soon to think about that right now. Don't put the cart before the horse, OK. Just continue on what you need to do to get your life in order and what you need to do to continue to paint yourself in a positive light. It may take some serious time before she begins to reconsider, if she does at all. Please keep in mind, DR and DB are not the only books I have read on this subject. And all of them push one very important point. The WAS will NEVER, NEVER apologize or regret leaving. They may reconsider and come home, but they will never regret it as they think they are justified. Keep that in mind as you work toward your goal!

Keep your head up!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...