IWL, take a breath. First, not all is lost. OK, you have to believe that. Have you read the sitch I posted some weeks ago about a buddy of mine? He was a WAS, left for two years, dated two other women, slept with both of them and pretty much turned his back on his wife and child. She got tired of waiting, she slept with a co-worker. But, after two years of doing all this crap, he suddenly woke up one day and wanted to go home. He and his W are in counseling and are happy now. They have had another child and things are better.
Do I want to see you wait for two years? No, I don't, but I think you get my point. Just because she admitted her was there it is not the end of the world. A blow to you and your sitch? Yes, sure. A painful one at that. But, hey, you already knew he was there right? Don't let yourself think this is a new wound. It is the same one you have suffered with for some time.
Get our your books, manuals and start working. Get on the phone with your coach. Work on your next step. Remember what some folks on here have told you. Once the OM is out there and not a secret, it loses it's luster and could fail.
I am pulling for you, buddy. Don't let that brief convo ruin all that you have worked on until this point. You can beat him. Denver is doing it and you can too!!!
BITS never walk alone!!!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
