I sent no response but I hope he spent time today thinking about what Sydney said and feeling like crap. In the past he has said that things like that weigh on his mind. Of course not enough to change anything.
SAdly he probably didn't give it a second thought. I used to wish my X would feel bad about things like that too.....then i realized he didn't. He truly believed he did the right thing. :::sigh:::
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn