Thanks Aug - in a strange way I am happy this has happened. I continue to romanticize how much better this OW must be. This was a good reality check for me. As for S - I think it was helpful to him that at tis point he can't really have a good kind of relationship with his Dad. He has just had a complete change of values and that frees S to keep a safe distance. I think S is just grateful to come home - and for that I am forever grateful.
As far as Antonia's description - it is DEAD ON!!!
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time