Lots and lots of bad, ridiculous stuff has been happening. After last Tuesday when my h called me names in front of our children, my 16 yr D and H had a fight. Well, not really a fight so much as him verbally attacking her. I had gone to basketball with my S and left one s and three D's at home. I was gone a little over an hour.
When I got back, the 3 younger ones were crying and the oldest was no where to be found. When I called her cell, she was sobbing, telling me she hates her dad and wants him to just leave her alone. So, I finally get the whole story about 3 hours later. My h came over to talk to the kids. D told him she wasn't speaking to him again until he apologized to me and that he was no longer welcome at our house. H went ballistic. Screaming at her, swearing at her, calling her names. Telling her she has no business talking to him like that and he can do what he wants to me because we are adults. The younger kids get scared and run upstairs crying. D's friend shows up at the house, hears the screaming and gets her mother, who comes into the house and takes my D with her. Unfortunately, she didn't realize the 3 younger ones were still in the house.
Anyhow, I call h and try to talk to him. Not a chance, he is furious with me because the kids are "on my side".
Fast forward to Thursday. At my son's basketball game - H comes as well as other four kids, my sister and her two children. The three younger kids sit with H. 16 D sits with my sister. I am the coach, so when the game is over I go into the locker room with the boys for the after game talk. When I come out, 10 minutes later, there is a crowd around my sister. She is crying and soaking wet. She had gone outside to confront my H about his behaviour with my D. He literally shut his car door on her and ran her leg over with his car.
It's a long drawn out story, but basically, she reported him to the police (he is a police officer) and I think he is getting charged with either assault, or hit and run.
This just gets more and more crazy and complicated and unresolvable as the days go by!!
Seriously, is anyone out there who can help me??
M 41 H 41 D16 S 15 D 12 D 10 S 9 M 17 yrs OW Jan. 03 - May 04 S Dec. 03 - May 04 R May 04 - Apr 10 OW Apr 10 S Aug.10 ** H wants LS and D **
