H and i are separated for 1 yr. m for 22 yrs. my 81 yr old MIL is in the hospital very sick. She has a heart condition, and her colon ruptured and she has a bad infection because of it. I often thought about what i would do if i had to go to wake and funeral if ow is going to be there. it would be a very awkward situation. I guess i would respect how h would want it. Any suggestions?
