Hi Sandi,

I think it is the maturity thing more than anything. My stbxw had the same problem, she goes after "dangerous" men, including a "good friend"'s husband and her boss.

I took it as a good sign when she brought it up and said that she was working on it, but I just wonder if you can? Can one really learn to overcome those sorts of attraction issues?

Oh, and I won't be getting a tatoo any time soon. :-)


M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011