I think it is the maturity thing more than anything. My stbxw had the same problem, she goes after "dangerous" men, including a "good friend"'s husband and her boss.
I took it as a good sign when she brought it up and said that she was working on it, but I just wonder if you can? Can one really learn to overcome those sorts of attraction issues?
Oh, and I won't be getting a tatoo any time soon. :-)
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011