You can control your expectations. By noticing when you have them, and then working to overcome them. You are still struggling with your expectation that somehow everything will just go to reconciliation and bliss, but you are at least aware of it. It's important that you aren't too eager right now. You have built a solid foundation of friendship and are trying to navigate to romance. Don't push too fast. Be patient. Time is on your side.
Actions are much more important than words right now. On both sides.
Enjoy the bread crumbs. There might be a gingerbread cottage at the end for you.
michelle, that is one of the best pieces of advice I have heard, bar none. I'm printing that out and pasting it under my eyelids...
(well, at least close to my computer)
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
