I can offer one comment, only, that within the last year, my wife admitted to me, that is why she married me. I was the "wild one" in our younger days, however, being married 18 years, with 12 and 13 year old boys, now her telling me anytime I act on the "wild" side, she looks at me as irresponsible. So, the long and short, that attraction will wear off over time.. My 2 cents.
Me-43,W-41 Married 18 years Together 20 years S12, S13 Wife EA - 3-2009 Reconciled WAW-9-2009 Reconciled again 2-2010 Bomb- 12/30/2010 Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011 BITS