Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

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Well, the wife and I spent a lot of time together this weekend, watching movies, hanging out. There was absolutely zero R talk, I certainly knew better than to bring it up.. Saturday, we both went our separate ways for a few hours, (she running errands, me to work), met up at the house around two and proceeded to have a "movie marathon", it was a free Showtime weekend, so we just relaxed, didn't really talk, but needed some downtime, we did that from 2 to 10.. Played 3 games of scrabble together Sunday morning while having coffee, went our own way for a couple of hours and did a repeat of Saurday's movie marathon.. Kind of a lazy weekend, but, we both had hard weeks' with a lot of work, and our boys would join us individually throughout the weekend, when we had something they wanted to watch, otherwise, they were in there own world. Has not pushed the D since last Wednesday, when I stupidly brought it up..

So, everyone, was this positive ? or being a doormat?? For myself, I like to think it was positive, but, am I just holding on to what we once had??? or is it really a sign that maybe, just maybe, even though she is saying it, she truly is not as ready to give up as what she would like me to believe??