Thanks Sandi,
I appreciate your support.
My W has a GF who lives about 10-minutes away who is recently divorced. According to GF, Her exH had a drinking problem and was abusive so she took the kids and left. Her ex has the kids every other weekend and she often invites my W over because she doesn't like being in the house alone. My W also has a guy-friend who is having marriage difficulties and accordind to my W "they are definately getting divorced". My W dated this guy for a while as a teenager, and lost contact with him for 20-years. She reconnected with him on Facebook a year ago and now communicates with him frequently. After the ILYBINILWYA bomb in October 2010 I checked the phone records and saw that she was talking to him for 30 to 60 minutes several times per week when I was not home. I confronted her back then and she said that he was just a friend and they mostly just talked about his M problems and the good old days. She did admit that she wasn't sure if she could ever be happy with me again, but he was someone that she might be happy with. She also said that there were several other guys she knew that might make her happy.


Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.