what I am NOT ok with is that he hides how good of friends we are from the OW. She has no idea that he calls or texts me everyday. She has NO clue he gave me a vday gift or even that he gives me extra money beyond child support. I dont like that Im in a secret relationship of any kind with him. I feel if he wants to talk to me, it should be in front of the OW. She should know. BUT its not my problem I guess. If he is going to hide stuff from her, that is their problem.
This is the same with us...I find it sad that he has gone from keeping her from me, and now me from her.
My H's sister told me a couple days ago, "now it's her turn to take a ride on the "crazy boat" let's see how long it lasts when it isn't an affair anymore but an actual relationship"
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
