See, I used to do that all of the time when we were first married. My W loved it because I had a great time with it, telling stories, writing little things to her in third person...it was fun and romantic to her.
She then said she missed those notes. She wished I would do more of them.
So it's almost a catch-22. The thing I have to do is not do it too much and DEFINITELY not expect anything out of it.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE