Antonia

I think that whether you believe he is MLC or not is not a black and white thing.

My W there is NO question in my mind. She hasn't said she wants D. She engaged in a lot of self destructive behavior

so I guess it was an easy one.

Are you saying that your answer to whether or not you should stand for your M would change if he is MLC or not?

I think if you see confusion, depression etc. and not just one of those things but a number of the signs listed in the resources that he may be ...

Originally Posted By: Antonia
That's his "explanation."


I believe him and you should too. Because THAT is his current reality.

YOU have to decide what to do here. Stand or not. And for how long.

IMO it doesn't matter whether its MLC or not. We can only go by other's experience on this stuff. The people who post here.

Will he wake up one day? Maybe. My first W (I have been divorced from her for 11 years now) was a WAS.

Now she tells me I was the only true love she ever had.

11 years...later.

No answers for you TonyB. Just your own.

I believe understanding all this is key for the LBS and the healing process...

Through the pain and sacrifice of your time while doing it you find a whole hell of alot about yourself and life and love.

Just my opinion.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am