It doesn't matter what W thinks. If she says anything to you about you doing it to get to her, you make it abundantly clear that you are going to do whatever you think is best for your daughter, and you don't care what she thinks the motives are.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A