Well since we had a child we had to at least text every few days about issues. but I went the nearly the whole month of january and into February without seeing her. The time I did see her was to have our little chat. Not many phone calls and maybe a couple initiated by me. I was trying to "go dark" and at first I did notice changes but at some point you have to pick up your end of the communication line. When she came that night she told me that she was gonna file by the end of the month. Since I've opened up a little more, without being annoying, I haven't heard another word about it. Not to say she doesn't still have that on her mind, but maybe it doesn't seem like her only option anymore. I keep convo lite, make a few jokes, listen to her every word, and relate to what she is talking about. I plan to call her tonite bc she took our D2 to the circus yesterday and I want to hear all about it. You can do this man!
