Yea i think that is good that your R talks are happening in front of a therapist. At-least that way both of can develop good communication techniques that could help.

Did you guys already start your 'no-R-talk-dinners' ?
Yea, i guess it can be a nice place for your wife to see the 'new you'.

You know but i think the elephant in the room is still her A. Did you guys come to any resolution on that?

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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...