Karma - I'll go ahead and attach my response to Figg when she asked about the dinners. Let me know what you think.

"The dinners were suggested by our couples therapist. They were originally intended as a place where we could talk about our R away from the house she did not feel safe in. Once the whole email hacking saga came out, our couples therapist said that all R talk should only occur in her office once a week. She suggested we could continue the dinners to have no R talk. We take our baby with us, but it is the one time a week that we just get to have stress free conversation. It is also the prime time where I show off my 180."

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated