Piecing is almost harder than before...

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Both...right on, as always. I want and need other view points. W and I for sure don't see things the same way, so one of you helping me see a different view makes it that much easier to get through this process.

I am dead-set on being a success story here and if that means my ego takes a hit instead of my marriage taking a hit than beat my ego to pieces!