Piecing is almost harder than before...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Harrier your point of view is invaluable. I have wanted to point out many times that your advice is right on the money, but...I get the feeling you're a bit like me and don't really need the glad-handing.

You successfully piece by continually rising to the challenge, challenging a posters 'vent' is key to this, instead of wallowing the poster should be looking at other angles.
Not just the self pitying one.