I have couple of questions for the vets here.

1: So from the above posts you can see that W had a meltdown on me on Friday(after i talked to my daughter) regarding a money issue that we talked on last wednesday. Today is my scheduled talk time with daughter in the evening. My feeling is to go ahead with the schedule to show that i am strong and things move on even though we might have some arguments. But a small part of feels if it would be better to go dark today and call wednesday (my next scheduled talk time). I'd love some feedback.

2: So W tells me that her family was planning on a ceremony coming sunday for daughter. She did not ask me to attend, but i think it was implied. But this has not been confirmed. I asked her about it last time i talked and she said that they are still deciding on the time. Should i again bring it up if we should talk or do i just let her tell me the time. I feel that if i ask her again, it would look like pursuing. But if i don't would it look like i don't care for my daughter? Not sure what to do here. help!


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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...