She's working for sure, I just wish she'd express that I am too.
One of the parts that's the hardest for me is that the only VERBAL feedback I get from W is negative. Now, her ACTIONS for sure indicate that we're moving in the right direction, but I think she's scared to say anything similar to "yes, I think this will work and we'll be ok; I'm starting to feel a little better". A statement like that would totally fill my motivation tank and allow me to know that I can hang in there forever. Instead, I have to interpret sometimes ambiguous actions and hope what I think is real and then I second guess what I think I saw.
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