Straight up affair vs. MLC

[Done in VA]

I was wondering if there was a difference between someone who just had an affair & MLC? That's what I was looking for here.

Trust me, my kids will never know how I truly feel about their father. And who knows, maybe one day, I will forgive him. But you don't walk around treating the person you promised to love & cherish like an animal off the street & get away with it in my book.

I've been on these boards long enough to know. This crap doesn't work. Sorry to burst your bubbles, but what percentage of people on this board actually get their spouses back? I'd venture to guess that it's less than 10%. So you all can sit on here, wasting your lives away, hoping to hit it big off the lottery. Not me. I stood for my marriage for 6 months & the only thing I regret is not kicking him out the door the second he dropped the bomb.