Recovering after a same sex affair - Part 3

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After having a great day with my baby boy yesterday, I dropped him off on my way to church. That is really difficult and might be a new topic for those that have split custody during a separation.

I did not initiate any contact via phone or text yesterday or so far today. Although, I haven't heard from her either. She is teaching today, so I wouldn't expect anything anyway. I will have to coordinate picking up my son tonight, so I will be forced to check in later today.

This goes back to the 180 and detachment balance. How do I do it? After putting my foot down about talking about the finances for our therapy session on Saturday, it seems as though we have both locked up.

I understand the need for boundaries. Splitting our accounts is one of these boundaries for me if she is living on her own. I will approach it in therapy. I imagine this will be the main topic of discussion along with her moving out on Saturday.

After finally making progress towards talking about our feelings, I hate that we have to waste a week of therapy going over the semantics of finances and her moving.