You cant have it both ways, she then said that I was only thinking about myself and not our son by not complying.
I dont meant to hijack your thread, but i'd love to hear from the vets what they think here. My W threw a similar line at me. I did not know how to respond. Hell we are about to be divorced in about a week and my W acts like we're still married. How do you respond, knowing very well that if you say no, W could take it to mean that you don't care for your child. And if you say yes, then you could be playing to her tune.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...