Try this. Send her a text or email with this message.
"Thanks for everything you've been doing lately. I know you've been working hard on things too. I don't think I say that enough."
I texted this to my wife last night. I think sometimes we get so caught up in what we are doing that we forget what they are doing. It is important to recognize that that there is effort on both parts.
Personally, I haven't felt like that in a while. I am just trying to focus on what I'm doing. Of course, for me I have tangible evidence of my wife working. She tries to spend time with me, she plans things, she goes to MC. Maybe she's not doing everything I want, but I bet I'm not doing everything she wants. Think about it this way. What is the easy way here - to stay or to leave? What is your W doing?
I think this is where the DB principles are helpful.
XYZ, I would be tempted to set my W straight, but saying that we are BOTH working on this M. Honestly, her perspective isn't really fair to you.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
