I know what you mean, man. I feel that way all the time and then W says things like "I have to get over all of this and all you have to do it sit and wait for me to do the work". WTF. I'm thinking "I get to bust my a$$ and you get to decide when and if we stay together".

I think both are right. We both feel like we're the only one doing the work. Guess that means we're both working hard. Right?

I desperately miss that emotional and physical connection too. Don't know how to deal with it as I'm still figuring that out myself.

M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11