But you guys have 2 kids together. They will be learning everything from you and STBXH. If you have the anger and not forgive, they might end up growing thinking that 'to be angry is okay'. That might affect them as grown ups. They are still young and it would do a great good that you and STBXH are in good terms at-least for the kid's sake. Just my 2c.
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