Update: So W and I were TM this morning. As it was winding down, I said "You ok?" She replied "I'm OK".

Me: "Sorry it was a tough evening and even more sorry that I've made you feel that way in the past. You're everything I want or have ever wanted. ILY"

W: "I shouldn't have brought it up, ILY"

Me: "I want you to feel free to bring up anything you ever want to. Good or bad, doesn't matter. I want you to feel ok doing that. ily"

W: "it just makes me feel badly and there's no point in bringing up feelings like that. Thanks, though. ily"

Me: "if it helps you work through it, that's a huge point for me. ILY"


Ugggg. So, not fun, but may in a way to show compassion after all.


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11