It is best not to talk about R with friends & family b/c they are too close to you and it's hard for them not to be biased. Your W's D friends will no doubt encourage her to follow them. Those who try to encourage her to work on the M are the friends she may drop.
Rely upon the support group here on the board and keep friends and family to have in helping GAL.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
