Your WAW is distancing herself from the kids? I haven't heard of that happening on here too much. I feel my W and I do even more with our D2 now than before. We both enjoy our time with her so much that we really try to take full advantage of it. Your D's are older and I'm sure more independent but this must be very hard on them. I would think your W would want to make the transition as smooth as possible for them and definently spent time with them. In the end we can control our own actions though. You keep being there for them and let your WAW make her own mistakes.
