In the last week or so I have been making an effort at "loving detachment" and GAL. I no longer pursue WAW with frequent txt and phone calls, and I leave it to her to initiate communication. My responses are brief and I don't ask here where she is, what she's up to, etc. We haven't had an R conversation in a month or so and I'm striving not to start one. I'm just trying to keep busy, stay positive, and put on a happy face. Yesterday, W took S to a charity carnival put on by the local hockey franchise. I would normally hang out with D at home, but instead I went to visit family so D could play with her cousins and I could hang out with my sis and BIL. It was a good time. I was tempted to discuss my Sitch with them, but didn't. So far I haven't discussed it with any family. WAW has been discussing it with her friends for months. She has some friends who are recently divorced (or in the process) and she has been asking them for advice and providing her side of the story. I wonder what advice she is getting from them?
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
