Denver As far as the OM coming over to finish this project, yeah it [censored] that the dink will be there but maybe you will have to bite the bullet on this one since it is for your SS. The positive I see is that your W told you all about this event. This probably wouldn't have been to hard to hide, but she chose to be completely honest with you, even though I'm sure she knew it would be an uncomfortable subject. Says a lot about were she wants to head with your R.