I am going to agree with everyone here, I am on my 3rd go around since 2001 with a WAW. Both of the previous times it took a LOT longer than I expected for her to come around, and patience was definitely not even in my vocabulary the first time around. Unfortunately, being here the third time myself, I am at least at the point where I understand that she will come around in HER time. Not one minute before. Forget expectations, they set you up for disappointment. Just go with it day by day.. And hopefully, it will come. Just my 2 cents.


Me-43,W-41
Married 18 years
Together 20 years
S12, S13
Wife EA - 3-2009
Reconciled
WAW-9-2009
Reconciled again 2-2010
Bomb- 12/30/2010
Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011
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