I am going to agree with everyone here, I am on my 3rd go around since 2001 with a WAW. Both of the previous times it took a LOT longer than I expected for her to come around, and patience was definitely not even in my vocabulary the first time around. Unfortunately, being here the third time myself, I am at least at the point where I understand that she will come around in HER time. Not one minute before. Forget expectations, they set you up for disappointment. Just go with it day by day.. And hopefully, it will come. Just my 2 cents.
Me-43,W-41 Married 18 years Together 20 years S12, S13 Wife EA - 3-2009 Reconciled WAW-9-2009 Reconciled again 2-2010 Bomb- 12/30/2010 Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011 BITS