I get you, BobbiJ. Being around my ex at all is very dangerous for me. She thinks I hate her but the truth is that I rebound very quickly(towards her) when I spend time with her or near her. I have known her for 20 years! Very hard to undo that but I am doing it.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final