My W was meeting with her mom and sister to plan her sister's baby shower that is scheduled in 3 weeks.
I called W to see if SS wanted to hang out with me for the day. I wanted to take him to the gym to teach him how to play racquetball and to swim. W didn't answer but called back a while later. She told me that SS did want to go with me, but it would be a couple of hours before she was meeting her mom and sister.
At around 4 p.m. W called... I was having coffee with a friend of mine. W suggested that she meet me at the coffee shop so that she could say hello to my friend. She and SS arrived and hung out for about a half of an hour.
W left and I took SS to the gym. I called W when we left and and asked her if I could take her and SS out for dinner. She agreed. We met at my house. Went and ate dinner... had fun time.
I got home a little while ago. W texted me:
W: "Thanks for dinner. It was nice to hang out. Night!"
Me: "You are welcome! I hope to hang out like that a lot more... and for a very, very long time. "
W: " "
The only down side to the day and evening is that W told me that OM has been helping SS with a science project at school. It is a project that they have already started. W told me that he is coming to her house tomorrow night to work on it with SS and that he is making her dinner.
Obviously, I don't like this at all.
BUT... W made this statement:
"I asked OM if you would still finish project with SS, and he agreed to."
The word 'still' to me suggests that she meant that she asked OM if he would finish the project even though he knows that she is coming back to me. Maybe I'm wrong... but don't think so.
That's it.
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