Confused, Frustrated, Angry and Alone

[wanda15]

Elf, sorry you find yourself in this sitch. This is a very helpful community to be in.

So have you read The divorce Remedy yet? If not, go and get youself a copy and read it. Secondly, this book is for you and not your W. This is your playbook. Do not share it with her especially if she is as angry as she seems to be.

What I am seeing in your post is that you do a lot for your W. What do you do for yourself? Are you always at her beck and call? Maybe you need to do a little less for her and a little more for you. This is a long journey so prepare yourself and BREATHE! Keep posting and read other sitches.