What up Punch... My W started EA in early August and finally told me about it after my prodding in early October. She ended it sometime in October. It was painful for her. The "fog" made her feel "in love". This guy is 32 years old. NO WAY is he actually going to take care of a 39 year old woman with two kids. And I think she knows it. He would have had some fun for a few months and moved on. I'm sure he liked her but when fantasy turns reality, things are a whole lot different...

No she never apologized for what she did. Mostly cause she thought we were done. And I gave her every reason to think that. In fact, I told her I was done! And I was done!

Like you I too wanted an apology. Let it go Punchy. If things work out your W will show you that she is sorry and that will be good enough.

Mine is showing me and it's awesome!

Right now all you can do is what is best for Punchy and all the little Punchys. Your W wants to be on her own... SHE THINKS!!! So let her and see how far she gets...

The grass IS NOT greener... And she will see that!


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012